When I was told, "Mom, I enjoyed it today," just listening to a "question" that the first -class mother is doing is improved.

* This article is a re -edited part of Yukio Yanagisawa, "The Habits of Parents Growing up in" Children who grow up "(youth publisher).

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It seems that many parents say that their children have a small number of words, and even if they talk about their children, they often talk.Even at home, your child is thinking and talking, but is you talking ahead or answering instead?

In fact, many people, including adults, do not think about most.This "power to think about things" is something to be conscious.

「お母さん、今日楽しかったんだよ」と言われたときに一流の母親がしている

I think it's the most important thing in child education to make your child feel fun and comfortable.It is actually a parent, not a school.

So how do you make your parents think about things?The method is very simple and "to talk to children."

Again, if the child is talking, I'll be happy to hear it anyway.What kind of story is it?Parents are not interested, such as "I want to do this" or "I want to buy such a book", or a stupid story.

From there, it's a good idea to explain why you want to do so and why you want it.After all, there should be quite a lot of motivation to do it because children are talking on their own.

Please accept what your child is interested in.Then the child thinks about the following requests.If you feel pleasure to say, "You can do your own request → it will be accepted and satisfied," you will develop from there and think about various things.